[N] Hey Woman, won’t it be Nice if you….#AtoZChallenge

Hey Woman…..won’t it be nice if you :

Do not strive to be a superwoman; Are you looking for praise when you do that?
Do not take over the entire responsibility of bringing up your children; Are you looking for leverage when you do that?
Do not make other women’s lives difficult; Are you trying to make yourself feel better?
Do not underplay your personality; Are you doing that to make others feel less threatened?

Hey Woman……won’t it be so much nicer if you :

Delegate the work that you have to do; it would be so much better for your well being.
Involve the father of your children in the day to day nitty gritties of child-rearing; instead of leverage you will be rewarded with love.
Help other women in whatever way you can; it would make the world a much better place to live in.
Let yourself be relaxed enough to behave naturally, letting your personality shine through; you will find the right kind of people enter your life.

And most importantly, won’t it be so much better if we treat others as persons & human beings first and than as women & men?

©April 2018 Sapna Dhyani

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16 Comments

  • Amit Prakash April 17, 2018 (6:24 pm)

    Well said. But looks like a distant dream only, seeing the current trends.

  • Sapna Dhyani April 17, 2018 (6:51 pm)

    Thank you Doc 🙂 Let’s hope that it becomes a reality in the near future.

  • Shilpa Garg April 17, 2018 (7:36 pm)

    Well said. Hope this comes true for all of us.

  • Sapna Dhyani April 17, 2018 (7:40 pm)

    Thank you Shilpa! Amen to that.

  • Purba Chakraborty April 17, 2018 (8:41 pm)

    I liked the positive tone of this post. Well said, Sapna 🙂

  • Snehal Joshi April 18, 2018 (2:30 am)

    Very well written piece.

  • Jyotirmoy Sarakr April 18, 2018 (5:07 pm)

    Very much logical write up.

  • Sapna Dhyani April 18, 2018 (5:34 pm)

    Thank you Jyotirmoy!

  • Natasha April 19, 2018 (5:40 am)

    A good reminder to all woman. Nice one Sapna.

    https://natashamusing.com/2018/04/p-is-for-painted-not-tainted-atozchallenge/

    • Sapna Dhyani April 19, 2018 (5:48 am)

      Hello Natasha! Thank you.Nice to connect with you here.

  • Seema Misra April 24, 2018 (4:59 am)

    Conversational tone of the poem is nice. I liked the entire poem,

    “Do not make other women’s lives difficult; Are you trying to make yourself feel better?”

    This resonated a lot with me.

    In an ideal world, we’d see people as just people.

    “And most importantly, won’t it be so much better if we treat others as persons & human beings first and than as women & men?”

    Do share your thoughts on my #BlogchatterAtoZ post for H:
    https://lonelycanopyblog.wordpress.com/2018/04/09/royal-hunting-lodge-kila-dalijoda/

    • Sapna Dhyani April 24, 2018 (9:56 am)

      Thank you Seema, for the feedback , and for sharing your views here. In an ideal world, we would all be persons _ and not gender specific.

  • Poonam Sharma June 8, 2018 (11:36 am)

    Role of women is intrinsic in our culture. Elder women defined role of younger one in the family as well as outside in the world. Men have very little role in defining role of women. So, taking all responsibilities on herself is taught by elder women. However, somewhere women need to change her mindset and let allow other to share responsibilities. really nice article with buried issues raised softly.

    • Sapna Dhyani June 8, 2018 (5:20 pm)

      Thank you Poonam. Your words are indeed true. It is firstly the women who need to be nicer and kinder to other women; starting with their own mothers, sisters, daughters, daughters in law, and so on. Life would be that much better and easy. Have a good day and thanks for stopping by.

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